~ JULY 2022 ~
Porn is something most of us love, but the right porn that hits all of the sweet spots? That can be a bit hard to find.
As a connoisseur of online porn, I have to admit right here and now that it is still tough as heck in 2022 to find a website featuring hot, good porn that doesn’t overwhelmingly prioritize the male gaze or the male orgasm.
Sure, you can wade through the various and sundry videos to find one where female pleasure and the female orgasm are the focus — but even then, there’s the distinct feeling that because of the way she’s being filmed and the way she’s encouraged to act and speak, there is still a man calling the shots. And underneath that a feeling that the porn you’re trying to enjoy isn’t for you.
So, where are the porn sites that cater to the female gaze, that honor female sexuality in all its beautiful forms and that don’t objectify women in a way that will have you ready to take a shower immediately after viewing? Where are the porn sites that feel current and up to date with what we want from sexual media today? And where are the porn sites that don’t distract you from how good you want to feel?
Fear no more, friend, because I have found some legitimately great porn sites for you. If you’re tired of porn that feels overwhelmingly straight, cis-man-centric, you’ll be pleased by the following selection of sites. And while we’re at it, it’s probably a good time to treat yourself to some new sex toys too.
Please take care, though and don’t browse this one at your desk — because you’ll be able to access some NSFW websites from here on out. Click with caution and, when it’s time for You-time, have fun!
Quinn
Audioerotica stays a fave for erotic content in 2022 — and while it’s not “porn” it is something you can get off to knowing it’s made ethically and with your tastes in mind. Quinn, for example, is particularly cool with it’s super user-friendly interface, cast of sensual and totally dreamy voices and curated and inclusive playlists to hit all of your tastes.
Dipsea
Okay one more audio erotica, just for fun. Dipsea is yet another excellent introduction to how sexy and fun it can be to tune in and listen to some sexy voices. With its clean and beautiful interface, inclusive and diverse casting and thoughtful and consent-minded stories, you’ll love to plug in and enjoy pretty much everything in their library.
Particularly if you’re looking to get back in touch with your imagination rather than just be swept up in visuals, a Dipsea membership is totally worth it.
Lady Cheeky
Lady Cheeky is a curated Tumblr spin-off rife with images and GIFs that range artfully sexual to more explicit.
XConfessions
Created by feminist adult filmmaker Erika Lust, XConfessions brings very real, very sexy stories submitted by various folks to life.
Literotica
If you’re more stimulated by words than images (and maybe need a quieter porn session), head over to Literotica and let your imagination run wild thanks to the enticing stories submitted there.
Lucie Makes Porn
Run by Lucie Blush, a feminist filmmaker and performer, Lucie Makes Porn is a site dedicated to bringing you porn through a uniquely feminist lens.
Vivid-Ed
Part of Vivid Entertainment and run by sex educator and podcaster Tristan Taormino, Vivid-Ed lives up to its name, with articles, movies, photos and more to help you become your best sexual being.
Kink
Whether you are sure kinky sex acts are your vibe or you’d like to test the waters, Kink provides the videos you need to help get you where you want to go — sexually speaking, that is.
Cam4
If you’re the kind of person who enjoys spontaneity and the appeal of live cams, (plus the opportunity to filter for what you’re looking for), Cam4 might just be for you. Plus, they’re a site that takes the female orgasm seriously — having released a super thoughtful study on it in 2016.
A version of this article originally appeared here on sheknows.com
